Similarly, all the ones I met in person wanted to meet me again even if it was just for sex; but generally, they wanted something more than just sex. They can be very persuasive. I have always been hit on by gay men all the time in hook up sites since I have been out two years prior to meeting my buddy in my early mid 30s.
I was very worried of meeting too many strange guys in such a short time at the time. I met all my sex partners of various ages and ethnic backgrounds through Internet and all were wonderful guys, thanks God. I have even had straight guys who hit on me throughout years, a few were neighbors, some were co-workers, more of whom were even married men in their 50s at the time. I had sex with a divorced mature co-worker after three months of his persuasion. I think he has probably told others that I was gay although he denied it when I confronted him.
How old do I really look for a 50 years old guy?
Honestly, I am in much better shape than most of my peers. What the heck, I have seen many more incredibly sexy and young looking men in their mid to late 50s in the U. Here, a gay man in his 40s would be compare to someone in his 50s in the U.
I think it is because of too much smoking and lack of exercise. I always lived a healthy life style without the habits of smoking, drinking, using drugs, partying and etc. I have been working out for the most part of last 25 years so I am stronger than when I was in my 20s and 30s excluding the on and off typical gym and work related injuries that I live with for years like knee, elbow, leg, foot, back pains etc. In regards to my sex drive…well, I ejaculate more during sex than my 25 years old young man and the other guys I met thus far. On average, I ejaculate more than 10 times weekly whether I have sex or not for the last…erhm… not sure, 20—25 years?!?!
I do like it and it relaxes me. I do have a stressful job but I do like it a lot.
It is okay if you intend to share your experience but do not attempt to pass judgement on others by trying to make them feel guilty, shameful or as if the person s with great age gap have some psychological issues. When I came out in my mid 30s, a few of the first hooks up of mine were with guys in their 50s. That was it! Thanks for reading.
In relationship for 5 years. No money changes hands and I am not controlling or molding him in any way. I am a straight male, and have simply just wanted to make friends. If two people are gay and enjoy each others company, then I see that as acceptable, any age gap. I want to get on with both genders, without wondering if a fellow male friend of mine just wants my ass.
This is my personal experience. I started dating guys half my age two years ago.
I was straight all my life. But in my sixties I started having gay dreams which scared me at first. After a few years of denial I decided to act. I tried an escort first. I tried a few sites. On one site I had viewings in 2 days. Most of them wanted pictures. Now I have a handsome boyfriend in his thirties. He is well off himself. We talk a lot about our businesses.
Lots in common. I am happy with him and he seems as well. I am separating from my wife for various reasons and plan to travel with him. My relationship with my wife was good but became unsustainable after her menopause. She refused to have sex after that. I was patient with her to no avail. Now someone loves me and I give myself to his desires. I love it. Respect, be respected…let me date boys my age and dont come telling me I should give a chance to older men, my life my choice…live and let other live. I can have friends. The biggest problem for me is health issues.
Besides sex with the love of your life is great.. Look for other things besides looks, fun, and love. There is comfort, maturity, learning potential. My mother loves my bf. My whole family does. And his family love me. My child likes him. I just want you to see there is more out here than your experience. And I do see it from your point of view though too.
Also, you seem hung up on looks. You really come across as shallow, unenlightened, and I guess conceited as well. My bf is Alot of older guys would ditch for younger and hotter. I worried about that before I really knew my bf. And he worried about me going for a healthier , more agile, stronger guy….
But loyalty is a big value to both of us. Some guys truly want older, and maybe at times it is for the comfort, etc… We all are not searching for the same things in relationships. Feelings of safety and comfort might be what some prefer over passion, etc..
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I also almost fell under the enchantment of an older guy who used to tell me he was 40, but he looked like he was When I realized what he was doing, I immediately got away from it because I knew that he was also seeing younger men. However, I know of some young guys who are lured by older men precisely because of everything that is described here.
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By the way my BFF is Read full article The reality is as gay men our dating pool is simply smaller. So it makes sense gay men are more willing to broaden their horizons that our heterosexual counterparts. Here is that column. Well, David wrote to the Magazine and the Magazine forwarded the letter onto me. All fields are required. We are polar Opposites in many ways, yet we seem to work.
When you think you have found a suitable seasonal match then chat online for a while. Later, talk on the telephone and perhaps organise a first meeting or date. Who knows, one of your new friendships may grow into lasting happiness. I went to his work a few days later and he came out and gave me a full body hug. I saw him again a week or two later at the same bar. Any advice? I would say this: First, I am green with envy! He told you he was attracted to older guys.
He made out with you, not once but twice. As far as the LTR goes, whoa boy put on the brakes. Take it one date at a time. Enjoy the process — and report back!